Mary Elizabeth (Haylock) Whitworth

Photo:Congratulation cards on Mary's safe arrival and telegram from the Gurney Family, Sunny Rise, 47 Ashwell Street

Congratulation cards on Mary's safe arrival and telegram from the Gurney Family, Sunny Rise, 47 Ashwell Street

Mrs Mary Whitworth

Photo:Congratulation cards on Mary's safe arrival and invoices from the nursing home

Congratulation cards on Mary's safe arrival and invoices from the nursing home

Mrs Mary Whitworth

Photo:Mary at work - NHDC c 1960s

Mary at work - NHDC c 1960s

Mary Whitworth

Photo:Mary & Rodney at St Mary's Ashwell 1967

Mary & Rodney at St Mary's Ashwell 1967

Jen Clarke - bridesmaid

Photo:Mary with 'Champion' Dolly

Mary with 'Champion' Dolly

Mary Whitworth

Photo:Mary celebrating

Mary celebrating

Jen Clarke

Photo:Mary - too much celebrating

Mary - too much celebrating

Jen Clarke

Photo:Mary enjoying a day out at Aldborough

Mary enjoying a day out at Aldborough

Jen Clarke

26 April 1943 - 5 October 2017

By Jen Clarke typed by Jackie Embury

 

Mary ‘Libby’ Elizabeth Whitworth was the only child of Charles and Gertrude Haylock, born at Benslow Nursing Home, Hitchin, on 26 April 1943, Christened at St Mary’s Stotfold, her mother’s family church. 

Mary lived with her parents at ‘Lyndhurst’, 45 Ashwell Street, the bungalow her parents had built and thought to be the first bungalow in Ashwell.

Together with her lifelong friend Jennifer ‘Jen’ Clarke, Mary initially attended Merchant Taylors’ School in Swan Street, progressing to Ashwell Primary School followed by Royston Secondary School;  completing her education at North Herts Technical College Letchworth where she undertook a secretarial course under the guidance of Judy Catterick.

‘Many years ago Mary was one of my shorthand students at evening classes.  Everyone had worked a full day and it was hard to concentrate all the time from 7.00 – 9.30 pm.  At about 9.00 pm, I learned that if I asked Mary a question – about anything – she would come back with such a funny and witty answer that the whole class would collapse with laughter and feel life wasn’t so difficult after all.  Mary carried that attitude through all her life and many times since then has lifted my spirits (and those of my cats!).’ 

Leaving education Mary first worked in the office of the Co-op at Letchworth but soon moved on to work for the North Herts District Council in the health department.  Her ability was quickly recognised as she was moved to the housing department  as a lettings officer where she remained until her retirement in 2003. 

Mary’s passion was animal welfare, always prepared to take in any animal that needed a home.  Her dog Dolly was her pride and joy achieving best in class at Crufts. 

Mary enjoyed writing, belonging to the Writer’s Circle at the Settlement in Letchworth; many will have been amused by her Grizelda Pugh’s monthly chats in the Ashwell Village News.  Other interests included painting, antiques and volunteering at Ashwell Museum and Wimpole House 

Mary married Rodney S Whitworth on 21 September 1968 at St Mary’s Ashwell. 

Mary lived at Willian until her mother died in 1995 when she moved back to ‘Lyndhurst’ Ashwell Street where she lived until her death on 05 October 2017.  Mary’s funeral was held at St Mary’s Ashwell and she is buried in Ashwell Cemetery alongside her parents. 

 

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